I think you need to be honest with yourself about about what really matters to you. For instance, maybe you have unpopular opinions but you feel strongly that you should express them. Or maybe you have unpopular opinions but you prefer to keep them to yourself. Each of these will generate different feelings in those around you, and different feeling inside yourself.
How you present yourself will determine what groups will accept you. So what group do you want to be a member of? What are the norms for acceptance in that group? Or maybe there is a belief in the world that you want to change, and then there is a price you will pay for being a shit-disturber, who's goal it is to make people uncomfortable so they will possibly change their beliefs. Each road has costs and payoffs, so the bigger question is who do you want to be?
Where you choose to stand has serious consequences. As plog notes, the nuances of this choice are dependent on the values of the groups in your world, but generally, I think, the journey is yours. Choose the path that you see fit, and that you would answer for with a clear conscience, and in that case, each day will contain the greatest pleasure for you and those around you.
All the best,