Size-Space and "Equal Vertical". No way does this give them all the same vertical spacing.
I don't get that, or most of the other seemingly impossible things. I put several on a form and chose to space equally - no problem. Put labels on the left too. As for a font, why would you expect to see font properties for a control that has no text? Am I misunderstanding the problems?
I agree, the label thing catches me off guard still, sometimes. Assuming you need the label, then type anything in it next time and it will stay. You don't need the property sheet to edit a label.
P.S. - you do know that option buttons are not of much use if not embedded in a frame, yes?
Label left and unevenly spaced
Arrange>Size/Space>Equal Vertical