OK - I put in the line you gave me:
.deferredDeliveryTime = DateAdd("d",4, Me.FUDateContacted)
This did nothing so I changed it to this thinking it didn't know what to look at to add the 4 days:
.DeferredDeliveryTime = DateAdd("Me.ProjectDate", 4, Me.FUDateContacted) 'get the date from the...