If you do a search for 'class attendance prototype' I posted long time ago that demonstrate how to have a spreadsheet-like entry with normalized structure you may be able to get some ideas of presenting the data.
As for adding the member, IMHO, it's easier to do so on a separate form and refer to attendance roster once the member has been added. But if you want to do this on one form, you would need to code for the click event on empty area or something like that to enable adding a member. The question is whether you want to do the extra work yourself or let Access do it for you.