People just... I can't relate to them sometimes.
Unfortunately you can and you do. Let me explain what happened to me, and I think you will see that it's true for everyone. I was 13 years of age when football violence came to the fore this was where Liverpool and Manchester United fans and Millwall and other famous football team fans would get in the Streets of practically kill each other. These were people with a shared interest in the same Sport. I've never really had much interest in football and I think this is the root of it. I feel superior to them, I would not degrade myself by associating myself with a sport where these people would run around practically killing each other.
As I grew up I noticed a similar vein throughout life. Whites against blacks, Society against homosexuals, Society against abortions. These were all the big ones, and then I started noticing the little ones. One group of Muslims will practically kill another group of Muslims because the two religions split a Thousand Years ago over a single word or something stupid like that.
I noticed that in the United Kingdom we have a class system where you have working class middle class and upper class then I saw that there was something similar in India where it is called a caste system you are born into a group and that's it, your lot.
Once you start noticing it you notice it everywhere. Then I got a mobile phone, an Android and my son got an Apple phone. We were divided and we practically came to blows over our difference of opinion about these phones!
I suddenly realised I was no different than those footballers I felt aloof from, better than. It's part of me it's part of you it's part of everyone the need to prove yourself to be better than somebody else, some other group. There's no denying it, it's just a natural tendency, a law of nature.
Once you start seeing it like that, then the World makes a lot more sense and is a little less threatening because you suddenly realise that there's nothing you can do about it, it will always happen.