Do you know they were in a seperate table called tblData and I ditched it as it seemed to represent a one to one relationship with tblRespite and Ive had problems with DLookup previously in 1 to 1 relations, hence the reason I ditched it
I'm not sure to what they your are referring, the questions or 5 yes/no fields in the user table.
In any event you actually have a many-to-many relationship between the questions and respite event (or user) since a question can apply to many respite events and a respite event can have many questions.
The same probably can be said for the 5 yes/no questions in the user table.