In fact, if you want to see this in action right away, rent any VPS service and check your logs, although I think you could see the attacks taking place in your computer with a tool like Wireshark too. In the case of the VPS, within minutes, if not seconds, you will be receiving all sorts of attacks. It's very educational for the variety of attacks you can learn about, so I suggest you try it to see it yourself.
You have to remember that the attacker does not want you to know they have access to your computer, because they may use it to mine crypto, perform DDoS attacks, serve as a proxy, send spam, etc. They may also monitor your activity, steal your data, etc. Also, tools have only gotten more sophisticated.