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I know you meant to say rarely instead of "not always"Brianwarnock said:see Rich’s response, he is not always wrong.
Brian
I know you meant to say rarely instead of "not always"Brianwarnock said:see Rich’s response, he is not always wrong.
Brian
I'm not following you here. I can't really incorporate Rich's response into my thinking because I don't know if his reference to "National Insurance" is the government-provided health care or if it's something different. I just don't know; and even if I did I wouldn't know the particulars of that system. I can only comment on insurance as I know it, which is the insurance system in the USA. And since the USA's system is the only one that applies to Tess' situation, I'm not sure how discussing insurance in the UK applies.Brianwarnock said:Whilst I sympathise with the couple mentioned Insurance is a business that has to assess the risks and charge accordingly, which is why my wife travels without cover for any problems relating to her cancer and I my eyes, but in a civilised society the society helps take care of the seriously ill, see Rich’s response, he is not always wrong.
No problem, bro. Sounds like you needed to vent.NJudson said:Oh geez...sorry to vent like that, but it pisses me off.
Tess, that's wonderful to hear. It sounds like you've got yourself a good man and a good relationship.TessB said:Once I explained to him how I felt he finally understood. We still disagree on the security insurance provides and whether or not it is a wise investment of funds, but now at least he thinks that it's a small price to pay for MY sense of security and to let me know he really does care about me.
Kraj said:I'm especially ahppy to hear it because my heckles were seriously raised when you wrote he had said, "You'd be fine if I died. You're strong, you'll make it." It's the same rationale my grandfather gave my grandmother when he left her to raise their three school-age daughters on her own while he ran off with his secretary: "You're strong, Lucille. You'll make it. She needs me." What a load of crap.
TessB said:We should compare heckles sometime, Greg my dear!
LOL... I'm sure my being married isn't the part that Greg would object to....Rich said:You're a married woman!
Tasslehoff said:3) Money wouldn't make me feel all THAT better if someone I loved died
Life is often full of suprises, as they sayTessB said:LOL... I'm sure my being married isn't the part that Greg would object to....
How right you are...Rich said:Life is often full of suprises, as they say
Idjit said:The point is not that money is supposed to make you "feel better" if someone you love dies. The point is that in most cases, especially for women, losing an employed spouse can financially devastate a person. Imagine the horrible grief of losing your partner, the love of your life. Now imagine how much worse that would be if you were unable to grieve properly because you were too busy worrying about losing your house and providing for your children.
$110K insurance for the primary breadwinner of a family with dependent children is nothing. There should be enough insurance money to pay off all debts, including the mortgage, and get the kids through college.
Brianwarnock said:I'm pleased that things are working out ok for you Tess . Your initial post sure produced some emotional responses, there are some emotionally scarred people out there, even Greg seemed to lose his usual cool rational approach and appeared to tell me to butt out.
Once again I hope things go well
Brian
If you or your partner getting:
Income Support?
Income-based Jobseeker's Allowance?
Pension Credit?
Housing Benefit?
Council Tax Benefit?
Child Tax Credit which includes an amount higher than the family element?
Working Tax Credit where a disability or severe disability element is included in the award?
You can have as much insurance money you like paid to dependants - provided you can afford the premiums.Idjit said:$110K insurance for the primary breadwinner of a family with dependent children is nothing. There should be enough insurance money to pay off all debts, including the mortgage, and get the kids through college.
Idjit said:... grieve properly...