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Indeed, AB. Family crises will test you in ways that you cannot imagine beforehand. My condolences to you and your family regarding your loss.
It was my mother's illness that led me to Biblical examination, looking for (and not finding) solace, comfort, answers, any kind of resolution at all. But there was nothing. All of the Biblical answers were, to me, non-answers - evasive and useless platitudes with no substance, at least from a practical viewpoint. And at that point, my belief evaporated. I have never hidden that fact.
We lost my mother-in-law just before Christmas of 2018. She was also in hospice and we had DNR orders on file. We had no decisions left to make because we had discussed them with her. She had stage IV metastatic cancer of the liver, intestine, and a few other places that had caught the spread, and she knew her time was limited.
On the other hand, I had to make the DNR decision by myself for my mother 30+ years ago because we had NOT had the chance to discuss it. Her rapid-onset Alzheimer's took away the opportunity to determine her preferences.
If you are happy where you are in your beliefs, I would not take away your happiness. But in turn I am content with my own beliefs and doubt that I would ever change.
It was my mother's illness that led me to Biblical examination, looking for (and not finding) solace, comfort, answers, any kind of resolution at all. But there was nothing. All of the Biblical answers were, to me, non-answers - evasive and useless platitudes with no substance, at least from a practical viewpoint. And at that point, my belief evaporated. I have never hidden that fact.
We lost my mother-in-law just before Christmas of 2018. She was also in hospice and we had DNR orders on file. We had no decisions left to make because we had discussed them with her. She had stage IV metastatic cancer of the liver, intestine, and a few other places that had caught the spread, and she knew her time was limited.
On the other hand, I had to make the DNR decision by myself for my mother 30+ years ago because we had NOT had the chance to discuss it. Her rapid-onset Alzheimer's took away the opportunity to determine her preferences.
If you are happy where you are in your beliefs, I would not take away your happiness. But in turn I am content with my own beliefs and doubt that I would ever change.