@RogerCooper Here's probably a better way to say what I think, compared to what I've been saying: I think people in general are focused too much on the person (their past, their actions) compared to what
they would do as President. Sure, I consider it to
some extent, but to a large extent, probably the majority of the consideration, is what the person would do as President. It may bother me to have someone accused of sexual assault as president, but it bothers me much more if someone would indoctrinate children with sexually perverted (or sexually-ANYTHING, just sex in general) at a very young age which has never been done before in our schools.
In other words, pretending for a moment that I know the future and know what someone would do (so partly hypothetically, partly it's reality):
"I'd rather have a President who raped someone but was going to teach children reading, writing and arithmetic and keep them safe compared to someone who'd never raped anyone and was going to deluge those children with sexual-themed teachings of all stripes and pervert their innocent minds".
Crazy as it may sound, when voting for a major political figure, I have to be disciplined and make myself focus on what they'll do in the future rather than what they've done in the past. Does it bother me somewhat that he's been accused of things? A little, though I kinda doubt the most serious things actually happened - but despite it bothering me, I prefer what he'll do as President to what Harris would have done.