Col/Rich/anyone else on the "other side of the pond", how is religion "organized" over there? How many different choices do you have? Col, you were saying you spoke to many different vicars and that they were all condescending towards you, were they from different faiths? I know you have the Church of England, is it state-run? It seems like here we have so many different churches to choose from...Catholic, Baptist, Methodist, Lutheran, yada yada yada that someone (almost) always can find a church/pastor that "speaks" to them in a way that others don't. I was just wondering if it was the same over there.
As far as your other comment with your mother and the reformed nasty guy, I've posed that same question to a minister myself and it's one of the things that I have a hard time reconciling with my faith at times. I don't want to believe that good people will be punished for eternity because they didn't find God, and I'm not convinced that a loving, caring God would punish one of his children like that. So I'm with you on that one particular point.