Concur with MickJay. Like FrothingSlosh, I to went and read the OP’s posts. Knowing the end state, I can see the frustration due to answers not being quick and easy.
Access (databases) are not for everyone and only the persistent survive Newbie8 obviously is not one of them.
That being said, Newbie8, you are in no position to make demands on this forum, once a post is made it becomes the property of AWF. It is unfortunate that you have not gotten the satisfaction I have with being a member - hopefully you will reconsider and come back and give it another go once your head clears.
The bedside manner of some of the people who have taken the time to help you may not be the best, but the help you have received has been great.
Best of luck and my desire that you reconsider is genuine. Access is a great tool and the community needs good people.