Thank you Dickie for your confirmation that phrases or words I use are perfectly normal. I suspect that some Americans will be super sensitive and view some normal comments or words as aggressive and a personal attack, which of course is not the case. I think the UK is much more relaxed about that type of thing - in other words, cultural differences. Only this morning I had a coffee in McDonald's and the young girl got it and gave it to me with the words 'there you go love, enjoy' - all perfectly normal. Plus of course, this is a British forum, not American.
Unfortunately, Pat took exception to my post and ordered someone to ban me for 24hrs. Not that that is a problem as I can still, log in normally.
I'm also unclear why the discussion re the Canary Islands is such a big deal. No-one is disputing that they are part of Spanish dominions.