I respect the point you are trying to make, but I'm continuing to hold that there are certain oppressive actions (cutting off a person's hand for committing adultery, raping children, torturing people in general) which justify intervention on a compassionate basis. It doesn't bother me that some will call me arrogant, demeaning, self-appointed, etc. I'm quite comfortable being called any of those things to step in and help someone who being brutalized, in some cases desperate OR may not even know there is a better life possible.
If i was in Afghanistan and saw that happening to someone and (somehow) had the magic wand to step in and prevent or stop it, I'd do it.
I expect similar values (but possibly a very different application, and various limitations as have been discussed), to permeate upward into my government policies.