Because the government is not honest we are dealing with multiple humanitarian issues simultaneously.
Because of that, humanitarian issues were caused? How do you think human rights and humanitarian concerns in Afghanistan would have fared over the past 20 years - that there wouldn't have been any, just because we weren't there and didn't know about them?
Aside from that question, I'd put Iraq on the
list, and Afghanistan might be somewhat successful too - it's obviously unfair to point to the one guy at the end who screwed everything up and then say "see, this doesn't work".
Lastly, I don't see the issue as simply "what do we get at the end of the process". To be totally honest, I have to include the full reality of the situation - and the situation that would have been had no intervention ever been done at all (like the way we treat Africa, and you can see the results - full-on, unmitigated, totally unchecked slaughter of 10's of thousands).
So what is my point? My point is, you should also consider how many bad things WOULD have happened, had we never put any pressure on anyone during all these years.
Have we sometimes caused more harm than good? Probably, yes. But not considering how much evil and suffering would have taken place had we never intervened anywhere, isn't really acknowledging the whole picture.
As for expectations, I've always thought that yes, absolutely - too many people's expectations are way too rosy. Military action involves risk of death. Any politician who is saying, we're going to go into conflict in this country but don't expect anyone to be hurt, that's just stupid of them to do - and stupid of anyone to believe. When you sign up for the military, you're signing up to risk death and injury - period. Obviously we want to minimize it, but I'm suggesting that just because it's the 21st century, people have gone a
little bit too far in acting like nothing could possibly happen to any American servicemembers because we think it's all just buttons and drones.
Simply put, if we weren't putting pressure on bad actors and making attempts, I believe -- in some cases -- much more harm would have been done, and I refuse to just ignore that in the calculation. Deterrence and harm reduction are real.