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I repeat, being Gay is NOT a choice. Your choices are to have sex or not. You can choose what kind to have but you will NOT be able to choose which kind "feels right" for you. Blade, can YOU choose to NOT be a heterosexual? Yet when we make the corresponding comment for gays you simply stand up and pontificate.
I grew up in New Orleans and earned my college money as a musician in the French Quarter. (I'm a keyboard person.) During our breaks, when we talked to our clientele, those that were gay NEVER ONCE said anything about choice. To them, it was something they knew from their earliest days. I was an avid bridge player (contract or duplicate, friendly or tournament - made no difference to me). My best tournament-level partner was gay. Everyone wondered why she and I never got married. It was because she liked the same kind of partner I did. Didn't stop us from being friends. She and I talked at some length. I trusted her to be honest with me because she had already told me the most terrible secret in her life, the one that caused her to live a lie until society caught up with reality a bit more. She said there was never an element of choice as to preferences, only as to the specific person who would be her life-long partner.
I feel sad for you, Blade. You have closed your mind to the possibility that you have made an error. As to the "two gay parents" - the likelihood of that happening is very small. Small enough that your 71% claim is suspect. Quote your source and I'll show you that they had an axe to grind. If your source is some "Family Values" group then they automatically lose credibility points because they have an agenda. It is the same reason that so many folks down-play Fox News as a joke. It is also no wonder that YOU seem to like them. I apologize if that sounds a bit dismissive, but then again, Fox News is more than a bit biased. The fact that you don't seem to notice that is very significant in your inability to detect and dismiss articles that have axes to grind.
I grew up in New Orleans and earned my college money as a musician in the French Quarter. (I'm a keyboard person.) During our breaks, when we talked to our clientele, those that were gay NEVER ONCE said anything about choice. To them, it was something they knew from their earliest days. I was an avid bridge player (contract or duplicate, friendly or tournament - made no difference to me). My best tournament-level partner was gay. Everyone wondered why she and I never got married. It was because she liked the same kind of partner I did. Didn't stop us from being friends. She and I talked at some length. I trusted her to be honest with me because she had already told me the most terrible secret in her life, the one that caused her to live a lie until society caught up with reality a bit more. She said there was never an element of choice as to preferences, only as to the specific person who would be her life-long partner.
I feel sad for you, Blade. You have closed your mind to the possibility that you have made an error. As to the "two gay parents" - the likelihood of that happening is very small. Small enough that your 71% claim is suspect. Quote your source and I'll show you that they had an axe to grind. If your source is some "Family Values" group then they automatically lose credibility points because they have an agenda. It is the same reason that so many folks down-play Fox News as a joke. It is also no wonder that YOU seem to like them. I apologize if that sounds a bit dismissive, but then again, Fox News is more than a bit biased. The fact that you don't seem to notice that is very significant in your inability to detect and dismiss articles that have axes to grind.